I've been a subscriber of Asiana Starr's site for over 5 years now. She does a live show nearly every Friday and she accepts custom video requests (she's done 3 of mine and they're on my 4th). The bondage is tight and usually involve a stress position and/or predicament! Ad far as I'm concerned, she's the best one out there!
not sure if i'd stand it all the way from the very first try, but I see that there needs to be some training in all matters when it comes to this setting. so, honestly speaking, i see it more like a process with a target